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How does one succeed in life?

12.06.2025 05:20

How does one succeed in life?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Making more friends is a goal.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

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How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

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Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Do not set goals—set systems.

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Saving $10,000 is a goal.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

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An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

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Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Procrastinates a lot.

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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

There was this one weird Bollywood movie that was released in the 2000s. Amitabh Bachchan was starring with another actress and the story was about how the old guy (Amitabh Bachchan) fell in love with the young woman. What is the name of this movie?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

What do you do when you are struggling to fall asleep?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

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Does not procrastinate.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

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Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

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“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

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Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

What I need from you?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Ask yourself:

That's it for today.